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The coronavirus cases are occupying everyone’s mind and every media outlet. Despite the emergence of this new trigger, you can cope with the stress that this causes. During quarantine, you may be experiencing economic, health, social, and emotional issues or anticipatory anxiety because of the uncertainty that the pandemic causes.
Fear not, there are many ways to endure during this virus, such as the following:
It is scary to think about. Those thoughts and feelings are 100% valid. Memes include political leaders, odd disinfecting ideas, and mask-wearing practices. With all the memes that joke about Corona (referencing the Mexican beer), the one thing that is true about all of this misinformation--life gave us limes--so what are we going to do about that?
Be Proactive, Not Reactive!
Many people experience something that happens to them, but let’s look at this time of quarantine as something happening for you. While it is an unfortunate situation, look at the positive. Cultivate an attitude of gratitude. You said if you ever had the time, that you would pursue that one hobby, spend more time with family, launch that business idea, and actually work out. Now is the time to look at this as what it is--not quarantine, but an interlude or pause.
According to Saybrook University, it is important to examine your self-regulation skills at this time and try to take control over decision making. Emotional self regulation is how you respond to an emotional stimuli. Some ways to regulate your emotional response is through mindfulness, reminding yourself of your values, and find a therapist near you.
A big misconception about mindfulness is that you need to be a spiritual recluse and listen to a guide that sounds like a yoga teacher that says, “ you on the tropical island of Fiji.” Poof! All your problems are gone. Mindfulness is a practice that encourages grounding in the present and separates the real from the mind’s fabrications. This improves your focus on the right things.
Do some soul searching. The things that you value can anchor you through difficult times. Are you family-oriented, goal-driven, or spiritually active? Whatever your values may be, be intentional about each day engaging with what you value. You will feel fulfilled more in what you do despite what goes on around you.
With the conditions lately, therapy is on virtual platforms. Have phone or Zoom appointments with your therapist to check in. Be sure that you are keeping track of mood changes accurately and answering questions well since providers are unable to see you in person and pick up on your physical indicators.
If you are new to therapy, beware of all the virtual therapy options. Feel free to try one of the list of safe online virtual therapy services from the American Psychological Association. Seeking therapy, even if you are feeling good, is a wise investment in yourself. Kudos to you for making this step towards walking in wholeness.
This time may cause heightened anxiety. Dr. Joy Harden, an Atlanta-based mental health professional and host of Therapy for Black Girls podcast, suggests focusing on the aspects of this pandemic that you can control. This shift of focus can allow us to readjust our response and prioritize self-care. Additionally, Jelilat Williams, a Syracuse-based therapist that is the host of The Lived Verse, and Dr. Karyl McBride, a Colorado Marriage and Family Therapist, provides tips on managing corona-related anxieties.
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Dr. Harden suggests curating your coping tool kit to engage all the senses. Having a physical collection of things when you are overwhelmed with emotions can help bring your mind to a better state. While Beyonce swears by hot sauce in her bag, swear by your coping tool kit box to get through hard times.
These are the things to put in your box in preparation for times of trouble:
If these feelings and self-care practices struck a chord within you, there are many other resources to explore. During this time there are several practices that are offering virtual therapy. Some examples are the following: GRW, Black Girls Heal, Crisis Intervention Hotline. Please remember to go to the hospital or a mental health emergency service if you feel that you are going to harm yourself or someone else or if your mental health causes extreme physical symptoms. In all things, stay safe and use the limes life gave you to your advantage.